To Casual Sex Or Not To Casual Sex…

To Casual Sex Or Not To Casual Sex…

To casual sex or not to casual sex, that is the question.  And its a good one.....   Apart from the emotional messiness that can arise from having casual sex, (given that typically women tend to be more motivated by security and men by freedom) there’s the...
THIS is stopping you from the REAL kind of Happiness

THIS is stopping you from the REAL kind of Happiness

To be happy, really happy, the kind of happy that lasts, and not the surface kind you’re used to.... You have to MASTER your mind, its the mother of all MUSTS. But first have to master the FEAR, and in order to do THAT you have to to *KNOW* fear intimately. Meaning...
Real Healing And You Make It Happen

Real Healing And You Make It Happen

You do realize, you make it happen.   And the longer you stay stuck spinning your wheels, trapped in your past (ahem, where do you think your thoughts are coming from?) the more crap you’re pre-creating for your future, right?   And you know, as a spiritual...
Why You Still Can’t Change Your Habits

Why You Still Can’t Change Your Habits

Ask the fly on your wall. ~ Your stubborn habits and hot mess behind closed doors are costing you, dearly. Hey I know you try. You want change, like yesterday. And you fucking need it because things are going south. But you still can’t seem to shift gear and you keep...
THIS Is The Freedom Your Soul Seeks

THIS Is The Freedom Your Soul Seeks

My whole childhood I held a secret. And I had a fear around my mother finding out because I was scared it would destroy her.   Turns out she knew, and the only person the secret was destroying was me.   It’s taken me most of a lifetime to shed the deep...
A New Truth About Being Single

A New Truth About Being Single

YES, I’m single.   NO, I don’t have webbed feet, scales under my clothes and a hidden tail tucked into my knickers. 😉   In other words, there’s fuck all wrong with me.   YES, I can attract men, easily. In fact, I once spent the (entire) night with one...
Energetic Imprints

Energetic Imprints

~The hallmarks of a contaminated sponge.~   Sodden in dense, weighty vibrations, you carry the energetic imprints of every past lover, every gone by relationship, every bitter break up.   Do you know you hold energetic ties between lives, and are bound by...
This Kills Magick

This Kills Magick

you'llWorry kills magick. Stone Cold Dead. It also kills relationships. Turns off the masculine. And I’m not just talking about the men in your life. I’m talking about the divine masculine, the source of providing, not just love, or luck, but also $$$ - yes, money is...
How Long Will Sabotage Reign?

How Long Will Sabotage Reign?

   I had NO IDEA just how much sabotage ruled my life.   For years, decades, it held me back and in it's grip. One step forward, two steps back. And it's slippery fucker because it presents in the most subtle and insipid ways.   You need to be Columbo...
What Makes Me Differnet

What Makes Me Differnet

~ Homeless, jobless, cashless ~ from sleeping on a couch to an on-the-water villa in the Maldives, all expenses paid btw. ⚡️🏝🍹😎⚡️ From a tourist visa, (no right to work and no $$$) ~ to not one but TWO sponsorship visas, permanent residency and eventually citizenship....